Its been Months I put up something here. Its The End of the YEAR- 2008 and I am still thinking on....What do I update here....My Blog...My Sweet Space...The Place where I loved to be @ times in Life!....
And here I get some inspirational thoughts from Monisha...
Kwel as she is...Beauty that lies in Heart is shown!
Life gives so much to think...so much to act....The Time just flies so quick that, by the time we decide on 'What NOW?'...You wouldn't have any options left!
So...Whatz was so much Special about 2008??
IT WAS SPECIAL BY ITSELF!!! LOL....Na.....What an Answer!!!
Someone made It Special....Something made it Special...
Wow....Just found this Beautiful... Beautiful Thought.... BE THANKFUL
BE THANKFUL
Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire. If you did, what would there be to look forward to?
Be thankful when you don't know something, for it gives you the opportunity to learn.
Be thankful for the difficult times. During those times you grow.
Be thankful for your limitations, because they give you opportunities for improvement.
Be thankful for your mistakes. They will teach you valuable lessons.
Be thankful when you're tired and weary, because it means you've made a difference.
It's easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings.
I absolutely agree with "Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings"
Its very true...we often complain....Infact I do....when I am angry and I Use Words, @ that moment with no regret I feel that it deserves to be that way...
Alas..in a while from then.....I find myself, so Sad, feeling guilty and pitying My Arogance,Anger....And regreting for the past Moment!!! Will I get that Moment Back?? No....Therez so much of Hurt...Hurt for self and Hurt for the Other!!
And Now...here I am kneeling down and asking God, "God,why does this happen to me..Why dont I have enough patience....Why Lord, Why???"
For the times I hate myself, for what I am ...I learnt to offer them Up to the Lord and Say..."Thank You Sweet God...For I realise that I am a Human and Not God!!! And so are the Others too.."
It is ONLY when we accept ourselves for whatever we are, It Is ONLY then we can change Our Lifes for the Better....
I Learnt this a hard Way thou..... n 'am still trying my best, to accept what I am!!! I know It sounds weird!! giggles..
Something important.....Experience 2: Not As hard as the first one thou..
Being Possessive can Lead you to a Deep $#**...
Anywayz..Exp 1 reminded me of the Best Solution...
" Every One Is Free In This World.....
If You Love SOmething....Set It Free..
If It is Yours, It will Come Back to you...
Else, Think It was Never Yours!!"
Phew!!! It reallly WORKS!!!
At the End of Both my Experience.....I am Happy...Coz...Its Mine!!!
Love is Freedom....
Nothing can be compared to the Gift of Freedom...
coz..Thou...God created man in his own likeness, He gave man a FREEWILL...
I AM BORN FREE..So IS ANYONE!!!
Psalms 121:1-8
1 I will lift up my eyes to the hills, from whence comes my help?
2 My help comes from the LORD, who made heaven and earth.
3 He will not alow your foot to be moved; He who keeps you will not slumber.
4 Behold, he who keeps Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
5 The LORD is your keeper;the LORD is your shade at your right hand.
6 The sun shall not strike you by day, nor the moon by night.
7 The LORD shall preserve you from all evil; He shall preserve your soul.
8 The LORD shall preserve your going out and your coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
Yes...All this year Through..I felt My God's Protection so safe..so sound in every second of my Life.
There are many things I learnt in Life.....
One of those important lessons is that, do not expect anything in return to your deeds when you think you are in right track.
Coz when expectations are not met....and you still wait in fraustration for something to return...you forget to continue doing your deeds and stand there in pain......With NO gain but only thoughts of no value..
AND FORGIVENESS.......Its a Wonderful Weapon against your enemy.....LOVE YOUR ENEMY, IT MAKES HIM GO MAD!!!
If you are a person who has a heart, to forgive the ones, caused you pain....I bet..you are forgiven 100 million times By Father God in Heaven!!!
ItZ Only when you Forgive, that you are forgiven.... If You have a Heart to Forgive....You are a Person whom God Has Blessed Abundantly...
If you can Love a Person...without expecting anything back in return...You are a person in Whom...God has Poured his Love into your Heart...overflowing and never ceasing..coz God's Love is so....
Oru Maduramaaya Sneham.....Daivathindae AA Maduramaaya Sneham..ennae....ithuvarae ethichu...inniyum athu anganae thudarum...
Ooro Pravisham endae Yeshuvindae Sneham njan anubhavikyumbol.......Athindae Pathhiratti Sneham njan agrahikyunnu...Ithraeyum..Maduramaaya aa Sneham....Endae Karthaavallathae...arkum tharaan kazhiyella,.....
My Prayer Tonight...
My Sweet Jesus...In this Life of Mine..at any point of time..at any part of my life..If I did crave for any kind of Love and If there is a Gap....unfilled....Fill it with your Love,That Sweet..Love of yours, Father. Coz..You are the healer....Yo know the best...You know my Past..My Present and my Future....
I love You God..So very Abundantly....Just standing here as Nothing infront of you Oh Lord...So...That You Fill this Nothingness in me. You pour out your Love and never ceasing Blessings on me..so that ...I, in great Joy and Happiness...Praise You, Oh Lord....And Glorify your Precious Name, Yaweh Adonai!!!
Praise You and Bless Your Name Oh, Lord!!
My Achievements for the Year 2008-
On The Whole... NOTHING!
Career- No Where did it move...
Completed SOX =Sarbanes Oxley Act, training
Efforts- Zero
Time- Zero
On the whole....Been very Lazy
Stopped cooking completely..
Was ill for more than a Month or two..
Did make it to few good retreats which helped me come Closer to My Lord, from my shatteredness.
Dint go to my hometown frequently....
Did join the Youth of Holy Ghost for intercessions on Saturdays....which are remarkable and awesome Time..I spend with Christ...to hear his voice..!
Spiritually, Yes..I did grow..
Lost My Childhood Friend...My School Buddy- Ashley Alberts!! Wow...What a Charming person he was, as a boy.
Days went on...when he had to leave our School and Join the Other for his High School....Slowly things started changing....Met him couple of times...even when he was in his high school....
Things completely changed when he had joined College......A Completely Lost MAN...
Never was in touch with him after that..even thou..I remembered him often.....Coz The friendship which we shared during our School Days..are never the ones to be forgotten..
I was shocked and Just could'nt take it when I heared that...."He is No More!!!"
Why did this happen to My friend?????
He Lost his Mom when he was in College. MAy be, that Loss of Love, Care and Support which was very important for that part of his blooming life, left him aimless ....And I feel that is when he lost himself to things which he should nt had to....and finally We...His Friends...LOST THAT BRILLIANT SCHOOL BUDDY!!
Just praying for his soul.......Miss You Ashley......The Memories, of those Times Spent during school days are never Fading..!
I was getting used to Single Life So...much that,,,feeling of getting committed would make me(still makes me) so much restless, thinking of the hard times to face with another...No idea Who it is gonna be.
Had tough time convincing my parents....each time proposals came....
Can say....It was Very Hard for me to do that. GHOSH!!! Days were BAD!! Never felt anyone as "The Chosen One" for me.....NOw, is that My fault???
(PArents Said ,"YES, it is!!" hehhehehhe)
This Year Started with Nija's Wedding, Then Anjali, Then Soumya, Ashwin Kiran's Wedding....and many more in btw...
Rajani My Chaddi Dosth.... is a proud mother of Cute Little Baby Gal..
Hehhehe...How will I forget...Jibu's Wedding...He'll kill me if I dont mention that here.Who else....Yeah, Jose got married...who else mmmmmm Yep...Chechi's Best Frn, Chittae...Got a Baby Gal. Hmmmm Sunil's Parents busy looking for a Gal = Pretty Zinta personality...:D All The Best ..Frn!!
Nija back from UK on a Break..
Roshan Back from Canada on Vacation..
James back from Qatar on Vacation...
Rancy Joined Engineering...
Dad went to Singapore, early This Year and Malaysia in this last month of the year. He Brought Lotta Yummy Chocolates. Yummy Yummy...........
Jaan Family and Mom went to Kodaikanal trip.
Chech Family ....Went on a trip to Goa.
I made few Trips to Mangalore this year..
Sneha n Kiran made their 2nd trip to Goa for their Anniversary.
Made Lotta Shopping....So much that I am Brankrupt NOW!!!:(
Celebrated Dad's 60th Birthday.
House Warming Ceremony was done..
Bhavya's Baby Boy, Aryaa Celebrated his 1st Birthday on 5th September.
Somebody celebrated their 26th Bithday on the 13th of September.
I forgot to Wish ANjali and Nija on their Birthday on the 6th December. Forgot to Wish Soumya on October 6th.
Bought a new Olympus Camera Early this year...Good One
Bought New N82 set...(Osiyil pagathi adichu...from Chechi)
Bought a New Laptop..Dell Studio, Good Config. Thanks Dad n Mom for the Budget...[Dont Tell me "Shameless", I've been telling myself that 101 times a day.....Shopping ruined Me :( ]
Wow...How will I NOT WRITE THIS....MY BEST BUDDY PETER FOUND HIS SOULMATE........HIS PARTNER FOR LIFE.....ANNIE!!
mmmmmmmmmmmuuuuuuuuuuHhhhhhh Who else can be happier than Me....!
And here I get some inspirational thoughts from Monisha...
Kwel as she is...Beauty that lies in Heart is shown!
Life gives so much to think...so much to act....The Time just flies so quick that, by the time we decide on 'What NOW?'...You wouldn't have any options left!
So...Whatz was so much Special about 2008??
IT WAS SPECIAL BY ITSELF!!! LOL....Na.....What an Answer!!!
Someone made It Special....Something made it Special...
Wow....Just found this Beautiful... Beautiful Thought.... BE THANKFUL
BE THANKFUL
Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire. If you did, what would there be to look forward to?
Be thankful when you don't know something, for it gives you the opportunity to learn.
Be thankful for the difficult times. During those times you grow.
Be thankful for your limitations, because they give you opportunities for improvement.
Be thankful for your mistakes. They will teach you valuable lessons.
Be thankful when you're tired and weary, because it means you've made a difference.
It's easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings.
I absolutely agree with "Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings"
Its very true...we often complain....Infact I do....when I am angry and I Use Words, @ that moment with no regret I feel that it deserves to be that way...
Alas..in a while from then.....I find myself, so Sad, feeling guilty and pitying My Arogance,Anger....And regreting for the past Moment!!! Will I get that Moment Back?? No....Therez so much of Hurt...Hurt for self and Hurt for the Other!!
And Now...here I am kneeling down and asking God, "God,why does this happen to me..Why dont I have enough patience....Why Lord, Why???"
For the times I hate myself, for what I am ...I learnt to offer them Up to the Lord and Say..."Thank You Sweet God...For I realise that I am a Human and Not God!!! And so are the Others too.."
It is ONLY when we accept ourselves for whatever we are, It Is ONLY then we can change Our Lifes for the Better....
I Learnt this a hard Way thou..... n 'am still trying my best, to accept what I am!!! I know It sounds weird!! giggles..
Something important.....Experience 2: Not As hard as the first one thou..
Being Possessive can Lead you to a Deep $#**...
Anywayz..Exp 1 reminded me of the Best Solution...
" Every One Is Free In This World.....
If You Love SOmething....Set It Free..
If It is Yours, It will Come Back to you...
Else, Think It was Never Yours!!"
Phew!!! It reallly WORKS!!!
At the End of Both my Experience.....I am Happy...Coz...Its Mine!!!
Love is Freedom....
Nothing can be compared to the Gift of Freedom...
coz..Thou...God created man in his own likeness, He gave man a FREEWILL...
I AM BORN FREE..So IS ANYONE!!!
Psalms 121:1-8
1 I will lift up my eyes to the hills, from whence comes my help?
2 My help comes from the LORD, who made heaven and earth.
3 He will not alow your foot to be moved; He who keeps you will not slumber.
4 Behold, he who keeps Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
5 The LORD is your keeper;the LORD is your shade at your right hand.
6 The sun shall not strike you by day, nor the moon by night.
7 The LORD shall preserve you from all evil; He shall preserve your soul.
8 The LORD shall preserve your going out and your coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
Yes...All this year Through..I felt My God's Protection so safe..so sound in every second of my Life.
There are many things I learnt in Life.....
One of those important lessons is that, do not expect anything in return to your deeds when you think you are in right track.
Coz when expectations are not met....and you still wait in fraustration for something to return...you forget to continue doing your deeds and stand there in pain......With NO gain but only thoughts of no value..
AND FORGIVENESS.......Its a Wonderful Weapon against your enemy.....LOVE YOUR ENEMY, IT MAKES HIM GO MAD!!!
If you are a person who has a heart, to forgive the ones, caused you pain....I bet..you are forgiven 100 million times By Father God in Heaven!!!
ItZ Only when you Forgive, that you are forgiven.... If You have a Heart to Forgive....You are a Person whom God Has Blessed Abundantly...
If you can Love a Person...without expecting anything back in return...You are a person in Whom...God has Poured his Love into your Heart...overflowing and never ceasing..coz God's Love is so....
Oru Maduramaaya Sneham.....Daivathindae AA Maduramaaya Sneham..ennae....ithuvarae ethichu...inniyum athu anganae thudarum...
Ooro Pravisham endae Yeshuvindae Sneham njan anubhavikyumbol.......Athindae Pathhiratti Sneham njan agrahikyunnu...Ithraeyum..Maduramaaya aa Sneham....Endae Karthaavallathae...arkum tharaan kazhiyella,.....
My Prayer Tonight...
My Sweet Jesus...In this Life of Mine..at any point of time..at any part of my life..If I did crave for any kind of Love and If there is a Gap....unfilled....Fill it with your Love,That Sweet..Love of yours, Father. Coz..You are the healer....Yo know the best...You know my Past..My Present and my Future....
I love You God..So very Abundantly....Just standing here as Nothing infront of you Oh Lord...So...That You Fill this Nothingness in me. You pour out your Love and never ceasing Blessings on me..so that ...I, in great Joy and Happiness...Praise You, Oh Lord....And Glorify your Precious Name, Yaweh Adonai!!!
Praise You and Bless Your Name Oh, Lord!!
My Achievements for the Year 2008-
On The Whole... NOTHING!
Career- No Where did it move...
Completed SOX =Sarbanes Oxley Act, training
Efforts- Zero
Time- Zero
On the whole....Been very Lazy
Stopped cooking completely..
Was ill for more than a Month or two..
Did make it to few good retreats which helped me come Closer to My Lord, from my shatteredness.
Dint go to my hometown frequently....
Did join the Youth of Holy Ghost for intercessions on Saturdays....which are remarkable and awesome Time..I spend with Christ...to hear his voice..!
Spiritually, Yes..I did grow..
Lost My Childhood Friend...My School Buddy- Ashley Alberts!! Wow...What a Charming person he was, as a boy.
Days went on...when he had to leave our School and Join the Other for his High School....Slowly things started changing....Met him couple of times...even when he was in his high school....
Things completely changed when he had joined College......A Completely Lost MAN...
Never was in touch with him after that..even thou..I remembered him often.....Coz The friendship which we shared during our School Days..are never the ones to be forgotten..
I was shocked and Just could'nt take it when I heared that...."He is No More!!!"
Why did this happen to My friend?????
He Lost his Mom when he was in College. MAy be, that Loss of Love, Care and Support which was very important for that part of his blooming life, left him aimless ....And I feel that is when he lost himself to things which he should nt had to....and finally We...His Friends...LOST THAT BRILLIANT SCHOOL BUDDY!!
Just praying for his soul.......Miss You Ashley......The Memories, of those Times Spent during school days are never Fading..!
I was getting used to Single Life So...much that,,,feeling of getting committed would make me(still makes me) so much restless, thinking of the hard times to face with another...No idea Who it is gonna be.
Had tough time convincing my parents....each time proposals came....
Can say....It was Very Hard for me to do that. GHOSH!!! Days were BAD!! Never felt anyone as "The Chosen One" for me.....NOw, is that My fault???
(PArents Said ,"YES, it is!!" hehhehehhe)
This Year Started with Nija's Wedding, Then Anjali, Then Soumya, Ashwin Kiran's Wedding....and many more in btw...
Rajani My Chaddi Dosth.... is a proud mother of Cute Little Baby Gal..
Hehhehe...How will I forget...Jibu's Wedding...He'll kill me if I dont mention that here.Who else....Yeah, Jose got married...who else mmmmmm Yep...Chechi's Best Frn, Chittae...Got a Baby Gal. Hmmmm Sunil's Parents busy looking for a Gal = Pretty Zinta personality...:D All The Best ..Frn!!
Nija back from UK on a Break..
Roshan Back from Canada on Vacation..
James back from Qatar on Vacation...
Rancy Joined Engineering...
Dad went to Singapore, early This Year and Malaysia in this last month of the year. He Brought Lotta Yummy Chocolates. Yummy Yummy...........
Jaan Family and Mom went to Kodaikanal trip.
Chech Family ....Went on a trip to Goa.
I made few Trips to Mangalore this year..
Sneha n Kiran made their 2nd trip to Goa for their Anniversary.
Made Lotta Shopping....So much that I am Brankrupt NOW!!!:(
Celebrated Dad's 60th Birthday.
House Warming Ceremony was done..
Bhavya's Baby Boy, Aryaa Celebrated his 1st Birthday on 5th September.
Somebody celebrated their 26th Bithday on the 13th of September.
I forgot to Wish ANjali and Nija on their Birthday on the 6th December. Forgot to Wish Soumya on October 6th.
Bought a new Olympus Camera Early this year...Good One
Bought New N82 set...(Osiyil pagathi adichu...from Chechi)
Bought a New Laptop..Dell Studio, Good Config. Thanks Dad n Mom for the Budget...[Dont Tell me "Shameless", I've been telling myself that 101 times a day.....Shopping ruined Me :( ]
Wow...How will I NOT WRITE THIS....MY BEST BUDDY PETER FOUND HIS SOULMATE........HIS PARTNER FOR LIFE.....ANNIE!!
mmmmmmmmmmmuuuuuuuuuuHhhhhhh Who else can be happier than Me....!
